永远不要跟老板说的九句话
“ Think before you speak” is always a good policy -- and at work it's even more
important. Saying the wrong thing to your boss can do serious damage to your career
-- and some of the things bosses don't like to hear may surprise you. We checked in
with some managers and came up with this list of nine phrases they strongly dislike --
and we'll tell you what you should say instead:
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三思而后行 总是没错的,在工作中这一点尤为重要。对上司说错话会给
你的职业生涯造成严重的损失,一些上司不喜欢听到的话可能会让你大吃一
惊。我们探究了一些经理人,总结出了如下他们最反感的 9 句话,并提供了恰
当的替代语:
1. I need a raise 我要加薪
Never enter salary negotiations talking about what you need -- because of rising
costs or a new expense, for instance. Your employer doesn't care about your financial
problems. However, management probably does want to reward success and keep
high-performing employees satisfied. A raise request should always be supported by
evidence of what you've achieved for the company -- along with information about
what people with your responsibilities typically earn.
永远不要在谈判薪水的时候谈论你的需要,比方说因为支出增长或者有某
项新的开支。你的雇主不会关心你的经济问题,但管理层可能想要对成功的表
现予以奖励并不断满足高效的员工。应该要以你对公司所做的业绩以及同行业
代表性收入的信息作依据,来提出合理的加薪要求。
2. That just isn’t possible 那不可能
Always speak to your boss in terms of what can be done. For instance, rather
than saying “We can’t get this done by Friday,” say “We could definitely get this done
by Monday, or if we brought in some freelance help, we could meet the Friday
deadline.” When you talk to your boss, think in terms of solving problems for her, not
in terms of putting problems on her plate.