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推荐序 毕业后的

 

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      年是练内功的最佳时期

 

                                                                 

 

 

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自序

 

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       岁前太

 

 "  闲

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       岁后会被

 

 "  嫌

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现在怕什么不重要，关键是你信什么

 

                                                                       

 

 

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　　也许你担心找不到出路，但要相信未来有思路

 

                                             

 

 

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　　也许你担心正处在起点，但要相信命运有拐点

 

                                             

 

 

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　　也许你担心自己被定位，但要相信不会被定型

 

                                           

 

 

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　　也许你担心当不了金子，但要相信可以当种子

 

                                           

 

 

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　　也许你担心今日很阴霾，但要相信明天是晴空

 

                                           

 

 

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　　也许你担心前途靠别人，但要相信命运在自己

 

                                           

 

 

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　　也许你担心自己被利用，但要相信关键是有用

 

                                           

 

 

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　　也许你担心自己不能干，但要相信工作需肯干

 

                                           

 

 

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　　也许你担心自己吃小亏，但要相信人生有大福

 

                                           

 

 

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现在有什么不重要，关键是你要什么

 

                                                                     

 

 

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　　不能只有小雪花，人生需要滚雪球

 

                                                            

 

 

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　　不能只有专业化，工作需要职业化

 

                                                            

 

 

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　　不能只有生存权，生命需要发展权

 

                                                            

 

 

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　　不能只有小聪明，生活需要大智慧

 

                                                            

 

 

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　　不能只有小空间，职场需要大平台

 

                                                            

 

 

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　　不能只有安全感。你还需要危机感

 

                                                            

 

 

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　　不能只有吸引力，人生需要影响力

 

                                                            

 

 

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　　不能只有旧荣耀，人生需要新辉煌

 

                                                            

 

 

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　　不能只有好想法，成功需要好做法

 

                                                            

 

 

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现在是什么不重要，关键是你想什么

 

                                                                     

 

 

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　　光明思维：不要盯在阴暗面上

 

                                                                  

 

 

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　　感恩思维：真心回报爱你的人

 

                                                                  

 

 

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　　归零思维：每天都是新的起点

 

                                                                  

 

 

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　　老板思维：处处维护公司利益

 

                                                                  

 

 

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　　共赢思维：在和谐中各有所获

 

                                                                  

 

 

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　　多元思维：拥有一个立体人生

 

                                                                  

 

 

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　　开放思维：绝不能做井底之蛙

 

                                                                  

 

 

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　　分享思维：给予也是一种得到

 

                                                                  

 

 

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　　当下思维：让快乐现在就蔓延

 

                                                                  

 

 

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现在会什么不重要，关键是你学什么

 

                                                                     

 

 

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　　及时充电：不能终身受雇，但要终身学习

 

                                                  

 

 

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　　敢于竞争：为生命的航船鼓起挑战的风帆

 

                                                  

 

 

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　　懂得沟通：不仅要懂得听，而且要听得懂

 

                                                  

 

 

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　　正确判断：人生是一连串果断明快的选择

 

                                                  

 

 

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　　学会自制：抵御住各种诱惑的一把保险锁

 

                                                  

 

 

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　　活用潜能：每个人心中都有座巨大的宝藏

 

                                                  

 

 

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